Make Him Want Me Back [article from Articleranks]

Make Him Want Me Back

what to do after a break up

If you've recently been through a break up, you may well be going through a world of hurt right now. In these hard times, we sometimes seek comfort in others. I know when I went through tough times, I was immediately thinking of different ways to make him want me back. In this writing piece are some ideas to help you in your time of need.

Relationships are all about power:

It's sad but true, but most all relationships are about power and dominance. If you've just become the victim of a break up, odds are your ex holds the power. If you wish to get him back, demonstrate to him that your emotions are under control. I recommend that you continue on with your life despite the break up.

It's very important to find a balance here. Don't shut yourself off completely but don't beg either. Both of those approaches will make matters worse.

Give it some time:

I have a thought about how relationships develop. In my theory, there are three phases that relationships go through. The first of these is known as the honeymoon phase. Followed by the fighting phase, and lastly a balance between the first two phases. Figure out where you were in your relationship and attempt to find a resolution. Don't forget to think about any action you decide to take.

Think about your actions:

You seriously won't believe the number of times I've embarrassed myself when trying to get my ex back. It is very important to think about anything that you might do. A simple gesture that you may believe is romantic and caring, may come off as creepy and desperate. Talk your ideas out with friends and family. They'll let you know where to draw the line.

Do not dwell on the past:

Time is valuable. Do not waste your life away being heart broken over something that you have lost. Find different ways to keep busy. I know it is easier said than done, but this step is crucial to recover what's left of the relationship.

Use the break up time to discover yourself as an individual. The less time your ex, the better the likelihood that he will make an effort to talk to you.

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